My Weaknesses
52 Weeks of Blogging With a Purpose: Your Biggest Weakness
Wow, talk about putting it all out there on the Internet. Writing a post all about the things I need to work on is a little intimidated....so much so that I almost skipped this week's link-up entirely.
But maybe putting myself out there, admitting how far from perfect I am, will help me to change some of these things. Then I won't have to be ashamed of them anymore.
I am judgemental.
This is the trait I really want to change the most. I hate that I judge people. I judge their actions, the way they live their lives. Never to their faces of course, but that doesn't make it better. Even having thoughts about how I think people should live their lives differently is wrong. Who am I to judge them on decisions they make when I know mine are far from perfect most of the time.
I have a temper.
Honestly, I never really knew I had a temper until Skip and I got married and moved in together. Sorry babe. I don't actually think the two are related, but as you all know, when you move in with someone you not only learn a lot about them, but yourself as well. I can be patient and very calm a lot of the time, but when I get really upset or angry about something, watch out. Skip says he actually doesn't mind my temper, because that just shows how passionate I am about things. But I still need to dial it back a little.
I am insecure.
People keep telling me that one of the great things about getting older is that you just don't care what people thing of you anymore. Well I'm 30 and still waiting for that to happen...even a little bit. I still have issues with my body, my skin, my hair. Will people like this outfit or make fun of me for it. In fact, I think being a mom has actually made this all worse. Because now I worry not only about people judging me, but my kids as well. Am I disciplining them well enough. Will people think less of me because we're only having 2 kids?
The list goes on and on. So anytime that older, self-confidence think wants to kick in, I'd really appreciate it.
So what are your biggest weaknesses? Come link up with Becky so I don't feel so quite alone!!
Wow, talk about putting it all out there on the Internet. Writing a post all about the things I need to work on is a little intimidated....so much so that I almost skipped this week's link-up entirely.
But maybe putting myself out there, admitting how far from perfect I am, will help me to change some of these things. Then I won't have to be ashamed of them anymore.
I am judgemental.
This is the trait I really want to change the most. I hate that I judge people. I judge their actions, the way they live their lives. Never to their faces of course, but that doesn't make it better. Even having thoughts about how I think people should live their lives differently is wrong. Who am I to judge them on decisions they make when I know mine are far from perfect most of the time.
I have a temper.
Honestly, I never really knew I had a temper until Skip and I got married and moved in together. Sorry babe. I don't actually think the two are related, but as you all know, when you move in with someone you not only learn a lot about them, but yourself as well. I can be patient and very calm a lot of the time, but when I get really upset or angry about something, watch out. Skip says he actually doesn't mind my temper, because that just shows how passionate I am about things. But I still need to dial it back a little.
I am insecure.
People keep telling me that one of the great things about getting older is that you just don't care what people thing of you anymore. Well I'm 30 and still waiting for that to happen...even a little bit. I still have issues with my body, my skin, my hair. Will people like this outfit or make fun of me for it. In fact, I think being a mom has actually made this all worse. Because now I worry not only about people judging me, but my kids as well. Am I disciplining them well enough. Will people think less of me because we're only having 2 kids?
The list goes on and on. So anytime that older, self-confidence think wants to kick in, I'd really appreciate it.
So what are your biggest weaknesses? Come link up with Becky so I don't feel so quite alone!!
We all deal with these just some on a bigger scale. Everyone judges, everyone has a temper and women especially have insecurities. My husband is more judgmental than I think is tolerable. hahah drives me nuts!!
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